You do not need to know what every girl thinks about panties to successfully get a date. Photo by carjamthompsontravel.
A girl is probably some form of functional underwear, but that doesn’t mean you need to have a special relationship to underwear. In fact, it’s okay if you don’t. Here are five simple facts you need to know about the ladies’ panties if you want to successfully get a date.
1. It’s OK to Wear Panties Under a Dress
Busty pantsuit in a Nudie-esque dress is not acceptable. Your best bet? Ladies’ underwear that can be tucked into a cute, strappy dress. If you can tell that a girl is wearing a regular bra under a dress, it’s probably fine to chat her up. Here’s a little secret: panties may be your best friend on a date, and what you wear under that dress may not even be visible.
Don’t wear something you can’t live with, don’t talk about sex, and don’t talk about your underwear. Photo by Chris Ryan.
2. TMI’s OK, But Have Some Sense
How in the world do you decide what to talk about on a first date? Is it OK to get into panties? Can you talk about sex? Of course it is! I’d never want to date someone who would think otherwise, but even though a chick wearing a regular pair of panties is no big deal, it probably shouldn’t be the first topic of conversation. Keep your intimate desires and opinions about potential new love to yourself until you know that someone else is willing to be honest with you about theirs.
One of the worst things you can do on a date is talk about other girls. Avoid that like the plague. It doesn’t matter if you’re talking about a girl you like or a girl you dislike. Chances are, you both dislike her at the very least. If you’re going on a blind date and want to, feel free to bring up other girls you know, but avoid talking about their underwear or about sex.
3. Don’t Talk About Panties Too Much
Girls may adore talking about what they wear, but talking about the most intimate details of their underwear is a sure way to lose a first date. It’s true. A girl wearing a regular pair of panties may be very cute, but don’t ask if she’s wearing a thong. You just don’t. Don’t http://www.russia-bride.net/articles/adult-chat-with-horny-russian-women-meet-moscow-sex-models
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